COMFORT SAD PEOPLE/ DEPRESSED PEOPLE

Introduction:

           

               Each one of us has its own problems and its up to us on how to deal with it, not all people have the courage to face their problems or have the strength to fight back sadness/depressions. We cannot tell people of what they've been through by just looking at their appearance, some of them might just wearing masks to hide their true feelings, they may look so happy but we don't know what they've been carrying behind. Not all people share their problems to others, because they want it private, some of them are sacred to be judged by other people.

How to comfort them?

1. Don't let them go alone./ Don't leave them alone.

     - We won't let sad people to be alone, because the more they feel alone, the more they will think negative stuffs and as what they've said, "No man is an island".

2. Talk to them well./ Have a deep conversation with them.

     - By talking them well, or having a deep conversation will make them feel comfortable with you, they might open up their problems so you can help them solve it.

3. Do not talk negative stuffs.

     - If you know that they are depressed or sad, just please don't talk negative stuffs, because if you tell negative stuffs it worsen their sadness and it would be a bad decision.

4. Tell them happy stuffs.

     - Tell them some jokes, happy moments, and a happy thoughts so they will think positively or they will think how precious life is.

5. Make them feel special.

     - If you see a sad person tell them good stuffs, make them feel special for them to lift up their selves and to give them courage to fight back sadness.

6. Understand them.
    - By understanding them , you may be able to offer solutions near at the end of your conversations.

7. Offer a hug.
    - Offering a hug make them feel that they are loved.

8. Check them always.
     - By checking them always helps them think that there are people who still cares for them.


Conclusions:

   I conclude that comforting sad people make them feel that there are still people who cares and loves them. Depression or sadness may just be a simple thing for us but on the other side, it kills thousands of people every year, by comforting them we can save lives, we can protect them and keep them, because life is God's gift, lives are precious, and lives is so wonderful to live in.